eerian-sadow:

total-limerence:

reblog if you have ever experienced/witnessed any level of sexual harassment or unwanted attention from a male. I’ve never met a girl who hasn’t been harassed in some form and I wanna prove that girls don’t chuck that shocking figure around for fun.

I have… a lot of stories. Some are mine, some belong to former housemates, some to coworkers. But I have a lot.

I was mostly spared sexual harrasment as I was always overweight, except from one neighbour in his 50ies who was an alcoholic at the time. I was 12, an early bloomer with quite large breasts for my age, and whenever he came by he’d hug me and fondle them. I tried to avoid him because he terrified me, but sometimes he’d still notice me, and he’d tell me I had boobs just like his mom had and that they were perfect. Fucking creep did it all in front of my family and they did nothing. After he got sober because of healths reasons, he was like a completely different man, and I stopped feeling uneasy in his presence.

What pisses me off the most is the fact that some of my male relatives feel entitled to touching either my ass or boobs and genuinely don’t understand why it bothers me so much. One of these days I’ll just slap them and then I’ll have to watch them get offended.